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Raymond “Buff” Bequet

February 20, 1958 - July 28, 2018
Visitation
Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel
4980 Merrick Road
Massapequa Park, NY 11762
516-882-8200 | Map
Wednesday 8/1, 7:00 pm
Service
Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel
4980 Merrick Road
Massapequa Park, NY 11762
516-882-8200 | Map
Wednesday 8/1, 7:30 pm
Cemetery of the Holy Rood
111 Old Country Rd.
Westbury, New York 11590
516-334-7990 | Map
Thursday 8/2

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Tommy left a message on January 15, 2024:
Ray always taught me to help people, love everyone, and everything is god’s will, the man help me tremendously to change in life , I also have 2016 messages still on my phone from Ray , if anyone needs them.
Lee Krinsky left a message on November 25, 2021:
You can email me using my name at Gmail. Thanks so much!
Lee Krinsky left a message on November 25, 2021:
Hi Sue, How can reach you? Thanks
Lee Krinsky left a message on November 25, 2021:
Sue, how can I reach you?
William Vultaggio left a message on October 11, 2021:
God Bless You and Thank you for helping me
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Susan K left a message on March 31, 2021:
Hi Lee - I have one from 2016 and one from 2017 - would be happy to send them to you
Susan K left a message on March 31, 2021:
Hi Lee - I have one from 2016 and one from 2017 - would be happy to send it to you
Susan K left a message on March 31, 2021:
Hi Lee - I have one from 2016 and one from 2017 - would be happy to send it to you
Lee left a message on March 26, 2021:
I met Ray about a decade ago. We spoke often for a year or so before losing touch. Still think about him and the lessons he taught me. I was so sad to hear of his passing from of friend last year. Never got to reconnect. I was hoping someone had a recording of any of his talks. Such a remarkable man. If so, please leave a message here. Thanks.
Susan left a message on March 25, 2021:
Still missing you Ray - at certain time more than others - still sharing the gifts you gave me with as many as possible
Susan K left a message on December 5, 2020:
So the "new norm" 2020 is coming to an end - so many changes but one thing remains a constant - my sharing the gifts you shared with me. You changed my thinking for the better and my life continues to get better because of it. What you taught me I pass on to others and they in kind pass that message to others. I am beginning to see how someone like you lives on forever- I miss you everyday but your words are always with me and I thank God for that blessing
Susan K left a message on December 5, 2020:
So the "new norm" 2020 is coming to an end - so many changes but one thing remains a constant - my sharing the gifts you shared with me. You changed my thinking for the better and my life continues to get better because of it. What you taught me I pass on to others and they in kind pass that message to others. I am beginning to see how someone like you lives on forever- I miss you everyday but your words are always with me and I thank God for that blessing
Susan K left a message on May 12, 2020:
May 12,2020 - Still sharing your message. In some ways now more then ever - it's about the thinking and the attitudes - something we all need to reflect on these days! Thanks for the experience, strength and hope you shared so freely with me - such a blessing and a gift that keeps on giving
Susan K left a message on May 3, 2019:
Got to share your message in a recovery room today. You are still doing good Ray. Miss you every day - thankful every day for all that you shared with me.
Joe Kelly left a message on February 20, 2019:
Happy Birthday Buff! Miss ya!
Marianne Tickner Franklin left a message on January 15, 2019:
To all of us that have great words or thoughts of Buff. He is doing fine. As long as I can remember there was always Buff. May you be resting in peace with my brother Patrick and sister Sharon! Yes , for sure you are laughing and having a grand time together in eternity with our savior, Jesus Christ! Miss my forever in my heart home, and the people we have lost, Massapequa ‘
Jimmy Stagno left a message on September 28, 2018:
The biggest heart that the good lord ever created . White around third he'll score ….pull a few strings for the Yankees and Rangers. Miss you so much
Paul italia left a message on September 8, 2018:
Just heard Ray, you’ll be missed brother, I’m in shock spoke to u not to long ago, you were a GREAT MAN!!! I wish u the best and until we meet again u will always hold a spot in my heart brother!!!
Chris Marsh left a message on August 17, 2018:
Buff taught me I have no reason to be angry in life when the guy in the wheel chair is the happiest man alive woohoo! Love you man, you'll always be in my mind.
Nick Martielli left a message on August 6, 2018:
Just heard this today. Deepest condolences. He was a true original.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jill left a message on August 4, 2018:
"All I have seen teaches me to trust the Creator for all I have not seen". Ray on so many levels ~ Thank-you!
Joseph and Barbara Rizzi left a message on August 2, 2018:
RIP BUFF. Joe and I will miss you very much. I always admired your courage and spirit. I remember how happy you were when I brought Frankie over and you had your forever feline friend. You two were always together after that. You met my beautiful little Emily and gave her such a sweet book.
Kathy G left a message on August 2, 2018:
God speed Ray , keep us safe and humble . My life is richer having known you. I will never forget those Earlt Bird mornings that you made extra special
Michelle left a message on August 2, 2018:
I will miss you and our great conversations always. Rest In Peace.
ed newman left a message on August 1, 2018:
as big and as great a man as you were when you walked this planet as a giant ,you were a much bigger & greater man when you left it in that chair. WOW what an impact you had in this world , A GREAT MAN HAS DIED , and an era has passed in all of our lives , and all that we are left with is the indomitable spirit of a MAN who shared his wisdom and courage and strength with us all. the world is a much diminished place without you my brother. I love you buff ,and I will miss you , see you soon. ed
George Doobinin left a message on August 1, 2018:
Hey Buffy - driving over from Jersey. Too many memories to process. Long live the Playlands. Man vs Machine, Buffy, Man vs. Machine....
Ginny Woodhouse left a message on August 1, 2018:
I shared many moments with Buff. I pray he is with Jesus walking hand in hand.
Joe Mullins left a message on July 31, 2018:
You suggested I call you and ask me how you were feeling and so I did. That suggestion came 8 years ago when I first met you at one one of those gatherings and for the next 8 years we spoke every morning every day. The impact you made on my life will never be matched. I am so grateful that God saw fit to have our paths cross that fateful evening. My life is so much richer for having known you . With all my Heart I love you and will never ever forget you Ray . May God keep you in His Loving arms and may your spirit continue to flourish in the lives of all the people you have touched so lovingly. Good night my friend. I will still call you tomorrow . I dont know what else to do
Chris and John Fouhy left a message on July 31, 2018:
We had fun, Buff! We love you! We miss you already.
Chris and John Fouhy left a message on July 31, 2018:
We had fun, Buff! We love you! We miss you already.
Irene and Ivan Cargonja left a message on July 31, 2018:
Miss you already. UnquaRd will never be the same. Thanks for bringing joy to our children's lives. Your life had a purpose. You helped many. One more thing.....
Jim ( Jimmy D) Devine left a message on July 31, 2018:
My good friend, I know you are very much alive in the Unseen now and wouldn't cone back here if you could walk & run as you could in college. You are an uncanonized Saint and a major loss to AA. Savor your indescribable Presence now in the Lord's continued service. Saint " Wheelchair Ray" pray for us. Jimmy D - Open Door Amityville & Back to Basics workshop co-presenter.
Jim Borda left a message on July 31, 2018:
My son is 6'5" and has red hair ! F U Buff !
Patrick LaPersonerie left a message on July 31, 2018:
Buff going to miss all the talks. Thanks for all the inspiration .I am very blessed to have known you . Love you . RIP my brother
J dell left a message on July 31, 2018:
Buffy , I love you brother. Rock n Roll forever. You were one of a kind.
Ellen Briggs-kennedy left a message on July 31, 2018:
You will be missed and the memories of gilgo I will always cherish RIP ❤️
Thomas Burke (aka: Tommy B.) left a message on July 31, 2018:
"No More Wheels... my friend. Up On Your Heels... my friend. Dance All Night... my friend. Until The Morning Light... my friend. Enjoy How Everything Feels... my friend. Because You've Got No More Wheels! R.I.P. Brutha
John Wolfe left a message on July 31, 2018:
Love you Buff,miss you already!
Susan K left a message on July 31, 2018:
I weep not for the loss of your physical existence but with joy and thankfulness for being one who experienced the true blessing of knowing you - You changed my life Ray - you will forever and always have a special place in my heart and I will as best I can pass on the gifts you shared with me.
John ONeill left a message on July 31, 2018:
“No rules for the other people” A Buff Original
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Scott Irwin left a message on July 31, 2018:
I miss you Buff. Thanks choosing to be my Dad when you didn’t have to and never giving up on me. I love you.
chris left a message on July 31, 2018:
Thank you for providing me the meaning of inner strength and the beauty of life... .and of course March Madness..the best time of year for me..and it is all because of your acceptance...Thank you so much for your friendship...you were an inspiration
Kathleen Specchio left a message on July 31, 2018:
And you him RIP Buff. You now are free to dance with the angels. Yes Dance Run and do all that you could not .... I bet that Rog was there to meet you and take care of you . Take care of him also I know both my sons truly loved you ..
Mary Burns left a message on July 31, 2018:
RIP Ray I am sure you have everyone in Heaven laughing.
Alec Baldwin left a message on July 30, 2018:
Thank you, Buff, for alerting me when my brother tried to hock my sister’s camera in order to buy illegal substances.#PlayLands
Alec Baldwin left a message on July 30, 2018:
Thank you, Buff, for contacting me when my brother was going to hock my sister’s camera in order to buy illegal substances.#PlayLands
Eddie & Helen Reagan left a message on July 30, 2018:
"Who's your Muhammad Ali?", Buff Bequet 1978Hog Manor, Plymouth, NH Going to miss you Buff.
Guy left a message on July 30, 2018:
Thank you for making our lives better. Love you Buff. R.I.P.
Richard Tonis left a message on July 30, 2018:
Your a true example of what life can give you if your willing to accept the up and downs ! God bless you my friend
Debbie Grubert Serrano left a message on July 30, 2018:
May you RIP sweet Buff. I will always consider you my 5th brother. Thank you for all your kindness and laughter. Heaven has been waiting for you. ^i^ xxoo
Kerry Ebbecke left a message on July 30, 2018:
Just an all around great guy who will be deeply missed by so many people! RIP Buff!
condolence-image Massapequa Funeral Home left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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